IAM a Lover

Romans 12:9-10 NLT Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.

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Do you ever hug someone, and it’s pretty weak or empty?
And then you hug someone else, and they really squeeze you  Almost taking the breath out of you?
I can admit that in the area of hugging, I still need some work and I am improving.
It’s my prayer to become a world class hugger!
One of my daughters is less than 9 years old and she is truly full of love and a world class grade a hugger! I need to learn from her for sure!

 It’s pretty obvious that people can tell when you care about them or not. And if it’s not inside of you, it takes a lot of energy to act as if you care. Ask God to fill you with his perfect love.  The real thing, unconditional love.  So you don’t have to fake it anymore.
When I take the time to meditate about how much God loves me despite my weaknesses and mistakes, how dare I think of myself better than anyone else?  God loved me, so I must love my brothers and sisters.
God forgives my sins, so I must forgive others.
It’s a natural overflow of my heart because, I have been set free.
I hope its not in the feeling of, well, God won’t forgive me of my sins, so I better forgive that other person. That’s begrudging and in all truth not genuine.

Hate what is wrong!  This is the only time I ever use this word. HATE. HATE Evil, Hate the sin that destroys, Hate the lies that hurt us and hold us back.

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You have wounds, I have wounds, and if we spend more time focus-sing on ourselves and thinking about what’s in it for me, then we have zero time or motivation to ever love one another.
We lash out, hurt, verbally or physically abuse each other, because we are hurting inside. That’s the way of the world.

The perfect opposite of hate is Love.  Hold tightly to God’s Love!
Ask God to fill your heart with his perfect Love!

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God’s love heals your wounds.  God’s love casts out all lies.
And God’s love is what allows us to truly love each other.

Take delight in honoring each other. When I think about taking delight, I see people standing up and clapping for each other.  Celebrating the win’s.  Taking the time to just verbally encourage and bless each other.   Not just the people we are supposed to love, but what about the strangers too?

 I boldly proclaim today, that I am not 100% there yet, but I am getting there. I say these statements as my heart’s cry and desire to grow into a lover of all men and women.  As God is healing me, and renewing my heart and mind, he is perfecting how I Iove others.

And it’s my wish and prayer for you as well!

 IAM A Lover

IAM A Genuine hugger
I honor my brothers and sisters
I take delight in blessing them

 Don Moen A Capella Style!